As of 2024, over 1.2 million people live in nursing homes, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Including loved ones in nursing facilities during the holidays helps them feel connected and valued. Simple gestures — like thoughtful gifts or spending quality time together — can bring joy and create meaningful memories during this special time.
Questions to Ask to Prepare for Nursing Home Holiday Visits
There are many ways to safely connect with loved ones in nursing homes during the holidays.
Before visiting, it’s important to prepare. Nursing homes may have specific rules, and your loved one may have unique needs or limitations.
Asking the following questions can help make your visit go smoothly.
1. Is Your Loved One Healthy Enough for a Holiday Visit?
Regardless of age or level of fitness, everyone has times when they’re too sick or tired to celebrate. For example, if someone recently experienced an injury in the nursing home, they might prefer a virtual celebration.
Checking with your loved one to see how they feel is a great first question to ask before visiting for the holiday.
2. Does Your Loved One Want You to Wear a Mask?
People have different views on wearing masks, especially in nursing homes where infections can spread easily. Asking your loved one if they’d like you to wear a mask shows respect for their comfort and helps keep everyone safe.
3. What Are the Nursing Home’s Visiting Rules?
Contacting the nursing home directly can help uncover any unexpected restrictions or policies, like rules about alcohol or visiting hours.
Additionally, understaffing in nursing homes might mean tighter schedules or fewer available staff to assist, so it’s important to confirm details in advance.
By planning ahead and clarifying these details, you can help ensure your holiday visit is enjoyable and stress-free.
Gift Ideas for Nursing Home Residents
Visiting in person gives you the chance to bring thoughtful, personal gifts that can brighten your loved one’s day. A mix of fun and practical items is often the best choice.
Consider gifts that prioritize safety and well-being. For instance, a high-quality, easy-to-use water bottle can help prevent dehydration, a common concern in nursing homes.
Similarly, non-slip shoes with good support can reduce the risk of nursing home falls, one of the most common injuries in care facilities.
Here are 5 small gift ideas for people in nursing homes:
- Books or reading materials: Large-print books or audiobooks in their favorite genre are great options. Pair them with a new set of reading glasses if needed.
- Craft supplies or activities: Crossword puzzles, sudoku, knitting materials, or photo album supplies can provide creative engagement.
- Decorative items: Framed photos, art, flowers, or other decorations can make their space feel more personal and inviting.
- Practical items: Comfortable clothing, slippers, or personal care essentials can be thoughtful and useful gifts.
- Comfort items: Warm blankets, cozy socks, or soft pajamas can make nice gifts while bringing added comfort.
Whatever gifts you choose, consider your loved one’s condition and needs to ensure they’re both practical and meaningful.
Nursing Home Holiday Celebration Ideas
Celebrating the holidays with a loved one in a nursing home can be joyful, even if you can’t be there in person. Below are some ways to spread holiday cheer.
Send Holiday Care Packages or Presents
A holiday care package or thoughtful gift can brighten your loved one’s mood. Include items like ornaments, festive clothing, or treats that fit their dietary needs.
If you visit in person, consider involving your loved one in wrapping gifts for others. This can help them feel included and connected during the holiday season.
Coordinate Digital Visits
If visiting in person isn’t possible, digital visits are a great alternative. Apps like FaceTime, Skype, or Zoom make video calls simple and accessible.
A surprise call from a family member or close friend can make the holiday extra special for a nursing home resident who might otherwise feel isolated.
Christmas Caroling
Caroling can take place indoors or outdoors, depending on the weather. Check with the nursing home staff first, especially if you’re bringing a group, to make sure it follows current health guidelines.
For residents with dementia, music has been shown to spark memories and improve mood, making caroling an especially meaningful activity. Studies have found that familiar songs can reduce agitation and encourage connection, even for those with advanced memory loss.
Making the Holidays Special for Nursing Home Residents
The holiday season should be a joyful time for nursing home residents. Reaching out to plan a celebration that suits their needs can help make it special.
It’s also important to check that your loved one is thriving in the care facility. Are they content, or could there be signs of nursing home abuse or neglect?
While the holidays are a time for festivities, they can also be a useful way to make sure your family member is getting the help they need — and stepping in to protect them if they’re not.
If your loved one has experienced abuse or neglect in a nursing home, the Nursing Home Abuse Center may be able to help. Contact us now to find out how.
